Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Loving Yourself


While driving from across the country from the Gulf Coast to LosAngeles, I was scanning the radio and heard one of the most beautifulsongs I have heard in a very very long time. Tamia was singing about atransition in her life and how she was going to put herself first. Basically, she was breaking up with her violent boyfriend and was goingto start dating herself.
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And her name is me,
And she loves me more than you'll ever know
And I finally see that loving you and loving me
Just don't seem to work at all
So patiently, she's waiting on me to tell you
That she needs love
And to choose between you two, boy you know
If I have to choose,
I choose me

The song is beautiful and demonstrates the importance of loving yourself.

In the real world, Tamia is married to Grant Hill. They seem to beloving couple. Gotta love that.

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Another Brotha sweating a White Girl




These are words I heard from a Sistah when she saw these photos of 50 Cent drooling all over Paris Hilton. My first thoughts were...."STOP HATING" and then I realized that when 50 Cent is seen with African American women, it is either highly sexual or it is on the misogny side.






I don't know...maybe the Sistah was NOT hating when she made that remark.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

7 Mistakes African Americans make with Money

1. Piling Up Debt Using credit cards responsibly can help you build good credit so you qualify for lower interest rates on loans. But charging your cards to the max and not paying them off is a sure ticket to trouble. Pay in cash instead to keep spending within your means.

2. Ignoring Murphy's Law Bad luck would have it that you’re involved in an accident the day after your auto insurance policy expires. If that happens to you, the financial fallout can be devastating. Be sure you stay fully covered with auto, homeowners (or renters ), health care and disability insurance at all times. And if someone else depends on your income, include life insurance.

3. Procrastinating on Saving In the world of investing, time can be your best friend. Thanks to the power of compound earnings, your chances of achieving financial independence shoot up dramatically when you start at a young age. By waiting even just a few years, you make it much harder to meet the same goal. So find a way to start today.

4. Free Money If your employer offers a 401(k) plan with a company match, make sure you take full advantage of it. Simply put, a company match pays you. If you're not contributing enough on your own to get the full match, you're giving away free money.

5. Not Using Cruise Control Basing your investments on what you have left over at the end of the month will get you nowhere fast. Instead, set up an automatic plan that takes money out of every paycheck. You’ll probably never miss the dollars you don't see.

6. Co-Signing for Loans to help Da Folks out Next time a friend or family member asks you to vouch for them on a loan, politely run the other way. When a bank requires a co-signer, it's because the person applying has no credible history of paying debts on time. If the person who received the loan is late on payments or simply doesn't pay up, you'll be responsible. And it could damage your credit.

7. Driving Upside Down in a PHAT ride. Let's say you buy an expensive new car and finance it for five years. Since new cars depreciate quickly, after a short time you may owe more on the loan than the car is worth — being "upside-down" on the loan. To get the most for your money, put at least 20 percent down or, better yet, buy used and drive it 'til it dies.

Quote of the Moment


A dream doesn't become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work....Colin Powell